Bringing a puppy home is exciting, but it can also feel like a lot all at once. I put together this Q&A-style guide to share what worked well for me as I navigated those early days. Every puppy (and household) is different, so the key is finding an approach that fits your family and staying consistent. Use this as a starting point to help you settle in with confidence.
Do Your Homework
A little preparation goes a long way. Just like preparing for a new baby, welcoming a puppy means learning what to expect ahead of time. Read, watch videos, and look up answers to common questions. One resource I found especially helpful is the Your New Puppy podcast—it’s great for first-time puppy parents and even useful as a refresher when challenges pop up later.
Settling In
When your puppy arrives home, begin by showing them their main spaces—where they’ll sleep, eat, and drink. Once they’re comfortable, slowly introduce other areas of the house. Too much at once can be overwhelming, so easing them in helps them feel safe and secure.
Feeding
To help with digestion, try soaking your puppy’s food in water for about 10 minutes before feeding. This is especially helpful until adult teeth come in, though some dogs continue to prefer soaked food long-term. I still soak my dogs’ meals and often use that time to mix in healthy add-ins.
Potty Training
Potty training requires patience and close attention. Taking a few days off early on can help you establish a solid routine. Watch for cues like sniffing or circling and take your puppy outside right away. Use consistent phrases like “outside” or “go potty,” and aim for potty breaks about 15 minutes after drinking water or 30 minutes after meals.
The Bell Method
Place a bell near the door and gently tap your puppy’s paw on it each time you head outside. Over time, they’ll connect the sound with going out. This method worked incredibly well for both of my dogs—and they still use the bell to tell me when they need to go.
Kennel Training
Start with short stretches (around an hour) and gradually increase the duration. Puppies typically avoid soiling their kennel if it’s the right size, though accidents can still happen early on. That’s normal—it’s part of learning.
Overnight Routine
The first few nights can be an adjustment. Keeping the kennel in your room at first can help ease anxiety. Try limiting water after 7 p.m. to reduce nighttime potty trips.
Walks and Socialization
Wait to take your puppy on walks until they’re fully vaccinated to avoid exposure to illness. Until then, focus on playtime and enrichment at home.
Establish a Routine
Dogs thrive on predictability. Setting consistent times for meals, potty breaks, play, and rest helps your puppy feel secure and understand what’s expected.
